Love and Stuff

Love and Friendship in 3 Stages Inspired by secure attachment and evolved dating wisdom In a world full of dating apps, ghosting, and fast feelings, Detached Dating offers a different way to approach connection. It’s not about playing games or being emotionally unavailable. It’s about being intentional, grounded, and clear-headed. This method isn’t about finding…

What Early Retirement Looks Like

Sleepy Time, Travel, Food, Exercise I thought retirement would look just like days filled with all the things I wished I was doing while I was working, every day, in an office. I thought I’d be posting daily YouTube videos, working on my writing projects, exercising like a maniac and eating impeccably. Habits are Strong…

2024 Designing an Unforgettable Year

I love any excuse for a fresh start — like a new year. Forget the usual resolutions about fitness and finances – let’s explore three unique angles to make 2024 truly extraordinary. 1. Flipping the Script: Your Worst Year or Its Opposite Fast forward to December 2024 and envision the worst possible version of your…

Visualization During Lockdown

This is the only thought I have for the day: picture your life at its busiest, most hectic and strung out. Do you remember days when you thought, “I wish the world would stop and let me off ?” I do. Well, today is that day. The world has stopped for at least a month.…

Personal Decade in Review

Woohoo! We are entering a brand new decade and leaving 2010-2019 behind us. Did I mention I love new beginnings and fresh starts? It’s always a time to reflect on what we’ve done, what we’ve learned, and where we want to go. In fact, one of the best New Decade evaluations I did of my…

G-BOMBS: Reviewing Health Documentaries

I was reviewing a documentary called “Diet Fiction” on Amazon Prime after someone had given it 1 star and called it “propaganda” for vegans and vegetarians. Another 1-star reviewer admitted they only watched 20 minutes. There are documentaries I like a bit better on the topic of healthful eating, but this one highlighted many of…

Character vs. Personality

I remember years ago my then boyfriend told me about a guy who smoked a lot of pot and drank alcohol. And then would drive his kids in the car. Boyfriend proceeded to regale me with several more colorful stories about what a mess this guy was and how he habitually put his children’s lives…